We see pixels on a screen and hear the digital reproduction of someone’s voice and think, “I see them, they see me, and we can talk.” But when you get right down to it, there is no one there. It is an electronic and therefore artificial representation we are gazing at and talking to. This may be an entertaining way to pass our time, but when we are in real emotional pain, these electronic connections fall far short of the comfort and intimacy we yearn for. It is extremely difficult for technology to transmit the basic human warmth that we all need, and that we especially seek in our moments of pain.
When you are hurt, sometimes you just want someone to hug you. A flat screen cannot hold your hand and share your pain. Even if your loneliness is relieved by a text message or a smiling face on your screen, those data bytes can never fully replace the full vividness of direct contact with someone who is present with you physically and emotionally.
from the book Interconnected: Embracing Life in Our Global Society
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Further quotes from the book Interconnected:
- The air we breathe
- The impulse to connect
- Cultivating a spirit of generosity
- The imagination to see the other as free and happy
- Interdependence always works both ways
- Our innate ability to connect with others
- Thinking about the consequences of our collective actions
- A greater sense of possibility
- Our intimate dependence on the natural environment
- Extend yourself and connect
- The opportunity to love
- Time to act
- Recollecting kindness
- Outer and inner world
- The interdependence between us and the world
- Knowing more is not a substitute for feeling more
- The best way to love oneself
- Focusing on our inner interdependence